Are you a people pleaser?

When I was drinking my personality was “A LOT” so when I got sober and was still kind of extra, I thought I needed to change. I tried REALLY hard to lose all of the things I thought were BAD about me, including:

• sassy

• bossy

• opinionated

• LOUD

• talkative

BUT GUESS WHAT? All of these things make me, ME. They make me STRONG. They tell me I know who I am and that I have opinions that matter. And let’s face it if someone said these things about a man people wouldn’t think twice🙄.

You cannot control what people think of you. It is all about knowing who you are and loving yourself regardless of what anyone else thinks. People only occupy your thoughts and have power over you when YOU allow it. So don’t. If someone can hate on you without knowing you, that says more about them than it ever will about you. So don’t sweat it. Be happy and live your best life.

Happy 2023 everyone! Stay true to who you are❤️❤️❤️